AITA Husband seems to not care

My husband and I were/are in the process of buying a house. Needless to say it’s been a stressful uphill battle. A house we almost had got basically outbid for as someone came along and offered more. So we have had to go through this whole recertification process for different loan types for other properties and it’s been an ordeal.

But now it’s crept into too close to our apartments renewal date. Before we had it perfectly lined up. Now they’ve requested more information In hopes to get a better deal since apparently deals change over time. I’ll start off by saying my husband works. Lately hes been working a lot. A coupe times this week he was stuck in some double shifts. Which suck for sure. I got him some food between shifts because I don’t like him going without.

But I’ve been asking him for weeks to get these financial papers. Several things the loan company want from him specifically that I can’t access without him. So it’s not like I can just go do it for him. Today he wasn’t working a double and immediately he wanted to play video games. I asked him if he could fill out the stuff first. He started telling me he would rather go to bed then. That I’m being disrespectful and not more appreciative of the fact he has worked himself to death to pay the bills.

That he wanted to enjoy his hobbies and some down time with me instead of me hounding him to fill out papers he doesn’t want to. Our lease ends on the 17th we could end up trapped in another year lease. I told him I feel like he doesn’t care about the time limit we are under right now. He is treating me like I’m not respectful of his time. He just needed to set aside not even 30-60minutes to give them what they want but that’s asking too much because he doesn’t want to have to.

I feel angry about it. After he uploaded some of the stuff because he apparently forgot to get other things they asked for ( that was also my fault because he said I didn’t remind him even though ive mentioned it so many times.) But he uploaded what he had and told me he was too irritated with me now so he didn’t want to play any video games with me. He said if anything hed rather play something I couldnt.

I feel so disrespected and I don’t even know how to move past it AITA? He doesn’t seem to care about this the way I do. Any advice or insights?