AITA for resenting my bf?

I’m a 20-year-old female, and my boyfriend is 21. We’ve been dating for almost two years (just one month left until our anniversary). Lately, I’ve been feeling resentment toward him, and whenever I feel this way, I can’t help but ignore him.

From the start, it was clear that he wasn’t the romantic type. He doesn’t like going outdoors and prefers staying in his apartment. While I also enjoy staying in sometimes, whenever we’re together inside, we literally do nothing.

As I mentioned, he isn’t romantic and doesn’t know how to plan a date. We’ve never been on a proper date where he planned everything. Usually, he just suggests a place, and I end up doing all the planning. I’ve already opened this up to him multiple times.

Another thing is that he’s my first boyfriend, while I’m his third girlfriend. I admit that I had high expectations for my first relationship based on my past experiences with guys who courted me. Since he isn’t romantic, he treated our monthsaries (before our first anniversary) like normal days. I remember that on our first monthsary, he forgot to get me anything. He promised to make it up to me the next month, but again, nothing happened.

When he saw the gift I gave him, he said, “I wanted to get you flowers, but it rained.” That really hurt me because it made me feel like he wasn’t putting in effort and was just making excuses.