AITA for not naming after father in law?

My husband has always wanted to name after his dad and we spoke about it a few times when we were dating and I was younger like 18-20 and I’d agree to the name. Then I got pregnant with my first son and realized I didn’t really like the name so I told him and we would talk about how I didn’t like it.

When I was 9 weeks pregnant I went to my in laws and told them how I was having a boy and they mentioned me naming after my father in law and I repetitively said I don’t know I just don’t like the name and sure I might’ve been rude about it after hearing about it so much but then my father in law got extremely upset and kicked me out of the house and basically told me that I’m from the streets. From then it was official to me that I’d never name after him because it truly scarred me.

I went back over to his house the next day and acted like nothing happened even though I don’t think any other women would do that and he never even apologized to me. We never ended up naming after his dad but after 4 years now it still gets brought up from time to time and my husband still says he’s hurt for me not naming after his dad but I say that I’d never name after anyone who disrespected me in such a way and that it still hurts me what he did.

I’m pregnant with our third child now and it’s a girl and he completely says he doesn’t care about what I name her because I never cared about his opinion with our son which isn’t true because I’ve gotten his opinion throughout and I’d never name a name that he thought was ugly.

Him completely telling me he doesn’t care about what we’re naming her is absolutely insane to me. It’s like he’s constantly trying to make me feel bad about not naming after his dad but I really couldn’t care less after what he did and said to me that night. He thinks if I truly loved him I would’ve given him the name and I think I showed enough love for him the moment I went back to his parents house and acted like nothing happened.